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Which do you enjoy more: Oral Sex or Intercourse?
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frankiej4189
Dec 02, 2008
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jonjax71
Dec 03, 2008
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I enjoy boith of these sexual encounters in all of their individual splendid varities by themselves and in combination. They are both part of erotic, healthy and enjoyable sex life among lovers, along with the other aspects of sex. Variety is the spice of life

 

Dec 03, 2008
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After deep concentration and thought I have come to the conclusion that sex shouldn't be a taboo subject. I'm almost 18 and nowhere in the Bible does it say sex is sin. It only talks about premarital relations and I don't plan to have sex before Im married so I guess I can talk about it...

To me Oral Sex, not Fellatio, but Cunniliungus, is a lot more stimulating then the actual act of intercourse. To me I feel a certain pleasure when I am able to please a woman with nothing more then my mouth and occaionally my fingers. Furthermore from what Ive heard the experience is one to last and keep you going back for more. The aroma and taste is supposed to be incredible. So I suppose Cunniliungus would be my prefered enjoyment.

 
xanthippa
Dec 03, 2008
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OK, I am only entering this debate because it HAD been tagged as inappropriate in the past....

But, please, can someone please explain to me how you could possibly have a romantic, loving, mind-blowing encounter WITHOUT combining the two in one way or another????

 
jonjax71
Dec 04, 2008
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*** ......MOST girls don't even like them that big....its just too painful.
Have you ever heard the expression "I like mine small and playful rather then big and lazy"......lol, there is a reason. Men with larger members tend to have a harder time staying hard because it requires a lot of blood flow...whereas men that are 6 to 8 in tend to be more virile. ******

Which is why the old adage rings true...."It ain't the meat it's the motion"


 

Dec 03, 2008
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hmm I would but I plan to have only 1 partner...and I find it romantic to wash my partner before sex so I think my partner would be very fresh. ;-)

 

Dec 03, 2008
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which is why littleminx that after performing cunniliungus, it leads to a heated and passionate intercourse. It can be the most romantic feeling after my partner climaxes and is still recovering from the last one when all of a sudden a new pleasure washes over her body and succombs her. So one can definitly lead into the other.

 
xanthippa
Dec 04, 2008
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I agree - it is not the length (which, if too long, can be as 'pleasant' as a hard kick to the testicles for a man is), but the breadth that is the determining factor for pleasure.

 
teachme
Dec 07, 2008
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Xan posted..."you will have better sex than if you sleep around. I have - and I have NEVER had a single regret!

(Yes, my husband is the ONLY partner I have ever WANTED to be (and was) sexual with!)"

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Really, I'm glad for you, Xan, but with all due respect...if you have only had one sex partner, can you really (and honestly) compare your experience with others' who have had more than one partner in their lifetime?

 
shypanda
Dec 02, 2008
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I didn't start this one. I am merely commenting. (Good on ya frankie)

The topic here is much more cut and dry than a mere comparison. Because it is directed at the individual it is considerably easier to assume the receiver.

While both allow for varied speeds, with oral sex there is a wider range of variety that can be employed. The level of constriction is variable as is the level of lubrication. These can to a lesser extent be similar to intercourse.

Oral sex has the advantage in that there is a greater range in the textile sensations that can be experienced; such as, flavor enhancers, 'numbing' agents used to produce a tingling sensation.

I pose the question; Why would more females have tongue rings (which stated purpose for oral sex) than cl*toral rings?

 
ddayvid
Dec 02, 2008
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Cauz eyez iz teh won ghetten it.

 
ddayvid
Dec 03, 2008
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Well, ur mum likes tah swallow, soooooooooo.......
yeahs, orals rocks.
P.S., She deep throats!
hahahahahahahahha!!!

 
frankiej4189
Dec 03, 2008
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Ahem...

-Cauz eyez iz teh won ghetten it.

-Cuz I is is the one gettin it.

-Because I am the one getting it.

 
ddayvid
Dec 03, 2008
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Hey man, lay off my breh, ok

oral sex RULES, it feels great having a b*tch suck my 12 inch.

 

Dec 04, 2008
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so how do they get one?...surgery I would assume but wow that is just freaky...thanks for the tip

 
xanthippa
Dec 04, 2008
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Which, in no way, lessens my question: how can you have a truly mindblowing experience without both???

 
xanthippa
Dec 05, 2008
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Honey,

the cl1toris IS NOT inside the vag1na.

Sorry.

Better enrol in a 'health class' again.

 
xanthippa
Dec 05, 2008
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That is terrible....

 
unlabled00
Dec 06, 2008
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"The _____ is only about 1.5 inches into the vagina"
OH OH
*buzzes*
"Yes 00?"
"What is the G-Spot?"

 
teachme
Dec 08, 2008
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Frankie posted..." I could be wrong, i was thankfully not born with a vagina."

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Maybe, if you were born with one, you would finally realize the difference between the "cl*toris" and the "G-spot"...that guys don't always taste "fresh" either...and what shoots out of a penis doesn't always taste like honey.

The fact is, Frankie...being born with a vagina, I can tell you this...you have no IDEA what you're missing! :)

 
teachme
Dec 08, 2008
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You're right...I love going down. I'm not sure just how to answer your question, since anything being produced by the body is natural.

I can tell you that the taste of ejaculate does depend on more things than personal hygiene. Diet is a definite factor, even medications...and for women the same, plus, the time of month (her cycle).

 
shypanda
Dec 08, 2008
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One of the main problems that I have run across when having intercourse is that too often the woman expects the man to do everything to please her. "You do whatever you want," while they avoid active involvement in the act itself. This makes the experience that much less enjoyable when there is the BS expectation that WE (males) have to please our partner and do so with little to no feed back. Some of the most enjoyable experiences I have had are when we both allow our passions to take control not only of ourselves, but the situation itself.

With oral sex the expectations are completely gone and the experience itself can be enjoyed for what it is.

Intercourse can become uninteresting easily when participants stop doing exactly that. Nothing is sexier than when a woman knows what she wants and isn't afraid to go after it.

 
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frankiej4189
Dec 02, 2008
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This is mean to be a mature debate for mature people. If you find anything in this debate to be innapropriate or offensive, tough. Don't come back to this debate. Let the rest of us who do wish to participate have an adult discussion please.

Stay Classy

 
littleminx
Dec 03, 2008
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uhh....lonewolf, what an argument....I have to say, this one is hard to argue. ;-)...however;

...while oral stimulation is titillating it only pleases you to an extent...even if you do reach your peak. Intercourse satisfies your most basic and primeval needs. This primitive need can only be satisfied when you "join"......you can have oral for weeks but it will never be enough...it will always seam like you need more, like you crave something...uh, something else!!! :-)

 
littleminx
Dec 04, 2008
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yeah - i suppose....But not all people are patient... let alone enjoy oral stimulation!! :-)

I know...there are some crazies out there who actually rather skip the whole oral passion thing...BUT then again there are people who also don't enjoy sex!

I like to warm up the oven before I start the baking...if you know what I mean. So i definitely agree with both you and Xan. :-)

Quick fact: 5,000 women world wide are born every year without a vagina.

LOL, I thought I might put that little useless fact in there. I always find them interesting.

 
shypanda
Dec 03, 2008
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I contend that an individual performing oral is the pinnacle of a loving act. A significant other who is willing to please their partner with no strings attached; the only desire being that of ensuring your partner enjoys themselves completely. The selflessness of the act is one of the things that makes it such a beautiful experience.

 
shypanda
Dec 04, 2008
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Thanks, that is much easier for me to read... I seriously had no idea.

 
littleminx
Dec 04, 2008
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on average men are max 7 or 8 in' ...not to say that some are more. But for future reference if your going to brag about your size at least make it plausible and somewhat appealing......MOST girls don't even like them that big....its just too painful.

Have you ever heard the expression "I like mine small and playful rather then big and lazy"......lol, there is a reason. Men with larger members tend to have a harder time staying hard because it requires a lot of blood flow...whereas men that are 6 to 8 in tend to be more virile.

If you can't be mature then please do us all a favor and keep your callow, inane comments to yourself...because quite honestly you are only making yourself look foolish and obtuse.

 
unlabled00
Dec 05, 2008
1 convinced
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I'll just add my little piece to this debate and say that the nature in which oral sex is performed makes it more difficult to look your lover in the eyes... and in my experience nothing is more enthralling than just that, which is one reason I prefer intercourse (although as xan said its pretty much impossible to not involve both)

 
littleminx
Dec 05, 2008
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yeah, it can cause many problems...surgery is not always the case but some insist on it being necessary with the monthy flow and sexual intercourse.

I guess many times it goes unnoticed until one tryes to have intercourse and it only goes in a mere 2 inches or less...or worse if they bleed internally on their monthly ...which has resulted in death in some cases... :-O

 
teachme
Dec 08, 2008
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I have to disagree...although I love some girth...a certain amount of length (not "monster"), is a key factor to my "ultimate" pleasure. I have had great sex with penises big, medium, and small...but, feeling him poking the back of my vagina...really sends me "over the edge."

 
shypanda
Dec 02, 2008
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I seriously can't understand what you are saying. Please use English.

 
frankiej4189
Dec 03, 2008
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Hahaha go down on a couple different girls and come back to me on that nice aroma and taste stuff ; ) Not every girl is..fresh, if you know what i mean. Which is one of the reasons i prefer intercourse over oral.

 
zombieslayer1
Dec 03, 2008
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to speak on a mature level. I find that intercource is better. My reasonings are that your partner feel each other and you can feel the emotions washing all over you in a somewhat zen feeling.

 
frankiej4189
Dec 03, 2008
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I'm trying to picture myself doing that but i can't do it without imagining myself bursting out into laughter when i'm washing my girl. I'd be too tempted to kill the romantic mood and bust out some bath toys and start splashing around ; )

*Note to my future wife..you will be marrying a 7 year old.

 
zombieslayer1
Dec 04, 2008
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both acts are very enjoyable but oral sex is nonetheless 4play and 4play is just the "cherry on the ice cream". What makes intercource good for me is the motion and vocaliztion as 2 partners work their way up to the maximum pleasure "peak".

 
xanthippa
Dec 04, 2008
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Methinks our young preacher is on the right path here!!!

 
frankiej4189
Dec 04, 2008
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The cl*toris is only about 1.5 inches into the vagina so technically a guy would only have to be 2 inches to get the job done (assuming he can get the job done).

As far as the "Does Size Really Matter?" question goes, there's no set answer. I've heard girls say they love them big and some girls say it was like sticking a baseball bat inside of them.

I contend that even with the perfect sized penis, it's useless if a man doesn't do the other things. IMHO, i think women like the stuff that leads to the intercourse and stuff that happens during intercourse more than the actual intercourse. I could be wrong, i was thankfully not born with a vagina.

 
xanthippa
Dec 04, 2008
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Yet again, I agree with you here....by practice as well as theory!!!

IF you pick the perfect partner before you choose to become sexually active (and yes, you SHOULD talk about sex long before turning theory into practice - the anticipation makes it better....plus you can match your needs before 'committing' yourself on this level), you will have better sex than if you sleep around. I have - and I have NEVER had a single regret!

(Yes, my husband is the ONLY partner I have ever WANTED to be (and was) sexual with!)

P.S. - Taking a bath (or shower) together is good, clean fun! Before AND after. Try it!

 
frankiej4189
Dec 07, 2008
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Excuse me, the "G-spot", not the cl*toris is what i was referring to.

 
frankiej4189
Dec 07, 2008
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Oddly enough, i never ever learned any of that stuff in Health Class or my Anatomy and Physiology class. NEVER, not once. Our Public Sex-Ed was basically, "don't be a fool, wrap your tool" by our lame, fat-ass principle in the 8th grade.

So i, and my other classmates were left to our own methods of finding out more about the opposite sex anatomy. Maybe that's why i can never find the G-spot ; )

 
frankiej4189
Dec 08, 2008
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1. I'm not forcing any girl to receive my body fluids. If you girls don't like it, don't do it right?

2. Being born with a penis, you have no idea what YOU'RE missing. Just imagine all the inopportune errections that are usually random and without purpose from the ages of 12-16. But hey, atleast i don't bleed like a dying animal every month ; )

3. Funny thing about how it tastes, i've never heard from a girl if mine tasted good or bad. So i've got a question i'd like you, a person who likes to give oral sex, to answer if you wouldnt mind...

-Do guys have a natural taste? Like even if they shower it will still taste naturally good or bad?

 


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