You appear to have a whole major objection to the very idea of social rules and customs to the point that you just might argue the time of day.
Our society is founded on the principle of strong family relations based on the institution of marriage.
These become the basis of all of our other social and legal principles.
For the moment, you appear to be blind to the basis of a civilized society. That's a serous handicap for productive living in todays society.
As a fellow traveler, many of us pray that wisdom will come to you and that you will have a happy,productive life.