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dueonmaplestreet
Aug 09, 2007
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Sex with your wife/husband was better before you were married


mrpayne88
Aug 10, 2007
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I would say before.......I have never been married but have been with someone long enough to be commonlaw so I will consider it the same thing.

As far as sex comes it was much better earlier in relationships before marriage/long term commitment.

It seems when your new all your hormones are racing and you feel the excitement of being with someone new/ different. After a long time having sex with the same person the quanity and quality both began to subside.

It seems after a long time it seems like a routine with less experimentation same positions, same girl, same everything....I find the excitement of having sex with someone much better, constantly being turned on not being able to keep your hands off eachother.

 
wnaroot
Sep 30, 2008
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before you get married,
hell, man before you even hit puberty ;)

 
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Sex with your wife/husband got better after you got married


gogopoet
Aug 10, 2007
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I have to go with after, because we only had sex once before and I was scared to death the whole time.

 
juggernaut
Aug 10, 2007
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It's safer knowing that you have the law and your family on your side.

 
dueonmaplestreet
Aug 10, 2007
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Theres a special bond after marriage. I feel safer and more comfortable expressing my desires and acting on them and there is a warmth that comes with those wedding rings. Our sex life has improved greatly since we married, and it was already pretty good.

 


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